In an instant my life changed when, in 2006, I lost my only child, Breana. She was twenty-nine and a new mother. The shock of losing her was like a wound that wouldn’t heal. Faith was no longer enough, I became obsessed with finding answers. Who are we, why are we here, where do we come from, and is there any proof of eternal life? The mysterious event that began my journey was surprising, but I didn’t rule anything out. I knew I wouldn’t stop searching until I found my daughter again.


I started by studying subjects such as:

  • Mediums/prophets
  • Religions
  • Near-death experiences
  • Reincarnation


Those fields led me into:

  • Science and the quantum world
  • Chemistry and Biology
  • Evolution

Besides finding my daughter, I found so much more…


I wrote my first book, When You Think About It, for my grandson, Owen. I wanted to give him the answers I had found and to capture the essence of the mother he had never known.


NOW in my soon to be published memoir, I hope to share with you the things I wrote for Owen plus much more. Each topic was a separate investigation, and I wanted all of it in one book. I discovered there was an answer to all of my questions just waiting to be observed and understood. You can easily understand subjects you felt were outside of your comfort zone, because I had to understand them first.


I hope it will help you know we are extraordinary beings that are eternal—and never alone.

This is an interview I did with Jack Canfield, (Author,”Chicken Soup for the Soul” series).



Beliefs should never cause us to set ourselves above others. If they do, we need to rethink our beliefs.


Defending God to the point of war discredits Him. He doesn’t need mankind to fight His battles, and never did


Everyday science makes discoveries proving the interconnection between all things. What stops us from internalizing and living that truth?


As races blend together, we will finally be seen as one human race.


It is consciousness that connects us to the one consciousness that created us.


Consciousness is an awareness inside of me and all around me. All I have to do is listen to hear it wants the very best for all of creation.


When life pushes us to the edge, we find ourselves doing things we never thought we would or could. I think that’s why we find ourselves standing on the edge in the first place.


Hate and anger arise out of fear, so it is fearful people who cause all of the pain and suffering.


Energy and matter are fundamentally the same things, which is why Einstein surmised that the solid world of matter was more of an illusion than it was real.

Does Everyone Go to Heaven?

Recently, a friend asked me if her beloved pet was in Heaven. I quickly answered, “Yes!” This was something I had researched after inheriting my daughter’s beloved pets: Max, Molly, and Liberty. I wanted to know if they would return to her when they left. The evidence I discovered was overwhelming that they would be together again. Whatever is important to us here, is important to us over there. We are never separated from the things we love. Everything has great value and purpose. Nothing is garbage that is thrown away. I don’t know about the mosquito. Although he won’t be hungry, so you don’t have to worry about being bitten. The Bible says that God's love is unconditional, yet it is filled with conditions for His love. That is confusing as it contradicts the meaning of unconditional love. In answer to the question, "Do we all go the Heaven?" Unconditional love can’t mean anything else. I know many will disagree since certain people are evil, and don't deserve to be loved or forgiven. Don't get stuck in the deep dark hole of bitterness, anger, and revenge. The book and movie, The Shack, demonstrate the damage we do to ourselves and others when we hold onto those vibrations. We must trust there is a reason, and a perfect plan, that we will one day understand.


It seems I am attending more funerals lately: A friend’s child, a husband, or one of my friends. I feel such pain for the family and wish I could put them inside of my head, so they can see what I see. We are eternal beings that cannot cease to exist. Those words offer hope,...

Steadfast Thinking

Science and religion ask the same question, ”Where did we come from?” Had religion not discerned science to be a threat to their platform, they could have worked in unison, and we would have more answers today. When people are steadfast in what they believe, they cannot accept any evidence to the contrary and oftentimes...

Recording Ancient Stories

The oldest cave paintings date back some 64,000 years and were thought to be done by Neanderthals. Obviously, cave paintings leave a lot to the imagination. Early hieroglyphics came along 5,300 years ago which gave a little more clarity. By the eighth century BCE, approximately 2,800 years ago, the Greek alphabet was finally established and...

The King on High

One of the first things I learned on this journey was the symbol used for the creator could not be translated with their limited vocabulary. Gods and pharaohs held all of the power, so the symbol became a powerful king on high. A pharaoh was considered a god who required complete allegiance. Describing the creator...

Question Everything

Problems occur when we accept the things we are told without question. Prejudices run amuck, wars break out, and gossip destroys lives. Even our health is compromised, as well as our environment, when we don’t ask more questions. Where did that information come from, and what harm can that drug or chemical cause? We live...

A Thorough Job

The day my daughter died, my life stopped and started over. The things I thought were important weren’t important anymore. The goals I had set throughout my life, I had accomplished. But now, everything about my life felt insignificant and temporary. My daughter should have been with me throughout my life, but she was gone....